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Senator Lankford, Thank you for your recent reply regarding U.S. military action in Iran. I appreciate the operational overview you provided. However, your response did not address the specific concern I raised, and I want to restate it with absolute clarity.
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Read moreThe inquisitive nature of the human mind has been evident from the very beginning of time. After all, it was Lucifer playing upon Eve's inquisitive nature that got us into the fallen predicament the world finds itself in today. Inquisition, nonetheless, has driven innovations ranging from the archaic wheel for a simple cart to the Sojourner Mars rover and beyond. Each step along the way has been possible only through the utility of the gift of observation. Not only was observation key to Galileo's discovery of the moons of Jupiter in the early 7th century, but it was also key to Walther Flemming's discovery of cell division in the late 9th century. However, it was a 20th-century philosopher of science named Karl Popper who modernized the scientific method and revolutionized the process of scientific discovery through the methodology of falsification. Karl Popper (902994) believed all inquisitions (theories) fall into one of two categories-scien- tific or nonscientific theories. Scientific theories, he argued, should be distinguished by their hypothesis formulations, allowing for falsification. That is, any theory should be put forward in such a way that it can be proven false. Popper used the analogy of the black swan to explain his idea. Beginning from the hypothesis: "all swans are white," no matter how many white swans can be observed, one cannot prove that all swans are white. There is the possibility that one has not actually observed all swans in existence. However, if you found one single black swan, then that single black swan would disprove the hypothesis: "All swans are white." That is, since the hypothesis could be falsified in this way, it is considered a valid scientific hypothesis. Popper's criteria of falsifiability soon became the core principle of the sci- entific method. Following its inception, no scientific hypothesis or theory was considered legitimate if it could not be falsified. Today, falsifiability is so intricately interwoven into the fabric of the scientific method that the seeming inability to falsify string theory has created an ongoing firestorm of debate regarding its legitimacy as a scientific theory. Setting string theory aside, all other theories, then, can state whatever can be imagined; none can claim to be legitimate scientific theories unless they can possibly be falsified through observation. In the end, the criteria of falsification is a safeguard against claims, both reasonable and absurd, from being put forward that cannot be disproven. Having now touched upon the criteria of falsifiability in the scientific method, enter God. Of course, it is no rare thing to hear comments such as "Science has proven God does not exist." In fact, it is not at all uncommon to listen to critics of theism throw out words like science, evolution, proof, God, and does not exist, all in the same sentence. The problem, however, is best put by the cliché "You cannot put God in a test tube," which is precisely necessary to falsify the claim that God does exist and thereby "prove" atheism true. Scientifically falsifying the claim that God exists, and thereby "disproving" God, is logically impossible because the direct observability and knowability of a hidden God does not allow for the scientific method to collect objective evidence in order to potentially falsify the claim. In a sense, it is no different than scientifically disproving that unicorns exist, which cannot be scientifically done. If God cannot be experimentally observed, then the scientific method, including the criteria of falsifiability, is useless. That does not mean that God does not exist; it simply means that God's existence can neither be "proven" nor "disproven" by the scientific method. Nor by the same measure can atheism be "proven," or "disproven" either. Even so, it does not mean that an evidence-based probability concerning the existence of God cannot be strongly suggested (the power of logic is also a formidable tool often brought to bear on the debate concerning God. Interestingly, both the scientific community and theologians are in general agreement. That is because consummate scientists acknowledge that the sciences are not equipped to answer questions of God's existence and therefore refuse to comment, as scientists. Similarly, the physicist Steven Hawking once said, "One can't prove that God doesn't exist." So, it seems we are in a conun- drum of sorts. Since the existence of God cannot be "proven" or "disproven," what can be said about the matter from either side of the debate? What if it were that the elegance of mathematics could be harnessed to give a statistical probability of God's existence being true, and concurrently a statistical probability that atheism is false? After all, statistical probability touches every aspect of our lives through the decisions we make multiple times each day. What is the probability that I will have an adverse reaction to a new medication? What is the probability that my car will not start this morning? What is the probability that the airplane I board will crash before I reach my destination? Statistical probability can also play a role in helping to determine the probability of such complex questions as God’s existence.
Read moreDEAR ABBY: My 43-year-old daughter, “Patti,” a mom of two from different dads, is constantly in financial difficulties and periodically asks family members for money. Her live-in boyfriend earns a good living but is no help beyond paying the rent. Their partnership allegedly exists only for the kids’ benefit. The two schoolage daughters attend private school. The boyfriend’s older son (by another mom) is away at college. We have noted a pattern of frivolous spending -- including fancy birthday parties, hairdos and clothes for the kids, along with plastic surgeries for Patti. She filed for bankruptcy 20 years ago after amassing huge credit card debt. She invested a good deal of time completing an online course to become a nurse practitioner and has subsequently failed the state exam. She has no plan to move forward to finish up the work so she can obtain a better job, which was her original oft-stated goal. My ex-wife stonewalls me when I attempt to discuss Patti’s difficulties. Patti has rejected my offers to review her finances (as a precondition to financial assistance) and recently refused to attend free financial counseling. She reacted to that suggestion in a series of nasty, resentful emails. I am at a loss to know how to help this daughter, who seems to believe money will fix everything. -- DAD AT HIS LIMIT IN OHIO DEAR DAD: If you really want to help Patti, close the Bank of Daddy. Stop bailing her out. At her age (43!), your daughter has lessons she needs to learn on her own, with the help of a credit counseling and financial counseling service. Based upon what you have written, she will not stand on her own two feet until she is forced to. ** DEAR ABBY: I am in my early 50s and married. I have a few questions about married life when people get older. Is it normal to feel like two adults just sharing a house together? I understand that at some point the sex might stop. With us, the problem is physical -- it’s not that we don’t want to. Also, do couples stop telling each other they love each other, knowing they do love each other but just not saying it? I know these questions might seem strange, but I have had them in the back of my mind for a while now and never knew who I could ask. -- FIFTY AND CONFUSED DEAR FIFTY: Your questions are not “strange,” and thank you for coming to me with them. When I sometimes hear from spouses saying they feel they are just sharing a house together, I respond that the most important quality in a marriage is a willingness to communicate. Almost everyone wants to feel loved, accepted, understood and valued. Sometimes couples forget to verbalize their affection or show it in other ways. There are ways couples who no longer have sex can be intimate other than “the act,” but for their relationship to thrive, they must communicate.
Read moreDEAR ABBY: My wife recently immigrated to our current residence in the U.S. from Canada. She has a 23-year-old son dealing with mental illness back in Canada. He refuses to remain in therapy or to hold a steady job, and he failed out of university. My wife consistently lowers her expectations and continues to support him. As a result, he has grown comfortable with emotionally manipulating everyone in his family while wallowing in self-pity. He is no longer allowed into our home because of his disrespectful and violent behavior, but he continues to punish his mom for moving on with her life. When does this end? -- GOING FORWARD IN TEXAS DEAR GOING FORWARD: You and your wife have my sympathy. You both need a better way to cope with this sad reality. Her son is not going to change, and you cannot ignore him and pretend this will go away. Connecting with others who understand what you are going through can be an important source of support. An organization I have mentioned before in my column may guide you in the right direction. It’s the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI). Find out more by visiting nami.org.
Read moreDEAR ABBY: A longtime friend recently accused me of lying about my education, and I’m still stunned by it. I completed my undergraduate studies in the U.S., earning a BA, and later earned a master’s degree from a French university. Recently, during an exchange on Facebook, my friend asserted, quite confidently, that I was lying about my academic history. When I corrected her, she doubled down and said that because of this, she wanted to cease contact with me. While this is upsetting given that the accusation is false -- I did finish college, and I do have a graduate degree -- I am less distraught by her ignorance than by the certainty with which she accused me and the implication that I’m dishonest. I’ve always been straightforward about my background, and I find it unsettling to have my integrity questioned by someone who has known me well for 30 years. My dilemma is this: Do I owe my friend proof or an explanation beyond what I’ve already said? Or is it reasonable to refuse to defend facts that are true? It seems crazy to lose a friendship of 30 years over something I consider to be so trifling and, quite frankly, stupid. And yet, I’m not sure I even want to be friends with someone who would treat me so callously. What should I do? -- WRONGLY ACCUSED IN NEW YORK DEAR WRONGLY ACCUSED: I am having trouble understanding why you would want to interact with the woman at all after this. (I know I would create some distance.) That said, you deserve to defend yourself from the unjust accusation. If you have access to the documents, photograph them with your phone and share them with her. Then ask where she got the idea that you hadn’t earned your degrees and why you would lie to her or anyone about it.
Read moreDEAR ABBY: I spent the morning at a close friend’s home. She is in her early 80s and starting to show some mental decline and memory problems. Her children are in their 30s and still live at home. Her husband is also in his 80s. While there, I noticed how, at every opportunity, the kids or husband would make some “innocent” remark about her hearing or mental alertness. It didn’t take long for me to notice how these remarks went from harmless teasing to mean-spirited. I could see by my friend’s expression that some of their remarks had hit the mark and hurt her feelings. She either played along with it or pretended she didn’t hear it. I made an early exit and proceeded to my next stop, where, to my dismay, the scene repeated itself with my own sister (also in her early 80s) as the target. Her daughter and husband were relentless with their teasing about her hearing, sight, word searching whatever they could find to demean her (no, this is not new). But after the way I saw my friend being abused, I had to get out of there. I am ashamed for not speaking up at the time. Abby, what should I have done then and in the future? -- LOUSY FRIEND AND SISTER DEAR ‘LOUSY’: When it happens in the future (and it will), feel free to speak up. Consider telling those “witty” individuals that their comments are not funny; they are hurtful. If they really believe what they are saying is true, their relative should be evaluated by a neurologist, an ophthalmologist or an audiologist to see what deficits can be remediated.
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